victim

in reference to those with disabilities, never use this word. Instead of "polio victim" or "victim of multiple sclerosis," say "someone who has polio" or "someone with multiple sclerosis." According to Ragged Edge, "'Victim' sensationalizes a person's disability. Instead, avoid emotional language by using 'has': 'has HIV/AIDS,' 'had polio.'" In the case of the crime of rape or other violent attacks, often the individuals do not want the "victim" label; they may prefer to be known as survivors. A general rule is to use victim if the person died in the attack, but otherwise let it be a personal preference on their part. Verify your choice of words with the people you're writing about. In addition, be careful that your material doesn't blame those injured. "We all want injustice to be the victim's fault" (Hortense Calisher). This is seen in reflections like "What was she doing at a bar at one o'clock in the morning?" or "Why did he leave his car unlocked?" See also acquaintance rape, disabilities, handicapped, provoke, rape, rape victim, she asked for it, victimization, culture of, violence.