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Recently, I've been thinking a lot about what it means to be a feminist. Well, not recently, I pretty much always think about that, but more specifically how I define feminism and how it carries through on this blog, in terms of what I post  and what other people submit.

I started this blog under the impression that it would be a place for girls to share their opinions and experiences, their thoughts on feminism or just their thoughts on life in general. For me, the feminist aspect of this blog was less in the intricacies of the content of each post but more in the act of girls finding strength in their own voice and strength in a community. However, I want to be clear: I'm definitely not shying away from calling this blog feminist - it definitely is, and the fact that we post about feminist issues is incredibly important. But to me, speaking out and supporting girls who use their voices is the most feminist action this blog accomplishes.

So, when I get posts that maybe don't completely jive with what I or other feminists believe, I don't reject them. I think it's important that if a girl, or guy, has something to say and has the courage and initiative to want to share it with our community, they should be able to. What kind of message would it send if the fbomb's policy was "this is a place for anybody to share what they're thinking about feminism or how feminism affects them...except if I or most feminists dont't agree with you." Also, it's a great opportunity to discuss why something is or is not feminist, and maybe help that person to understand where we're coming from.

Now, of course I'm not saying I'm going to post some random person's ranting on why being pro-choice is like being a murderer. I'm not about to post something that's in any way mean-spirited, hurtful or straight up anti-feminist. I'm just saying that welcoming a range of perspectives is something that's really important to feminism, and something I think can be improved upon in the movement in general.

I think we all know somebody who thinks they're open-minded but actually thinks anything contrary to what they believe is wrong. I know I certainly do. This person, who shall remain unnamed, is incredibly set in their own beliefs. They are pro-choice, an environmentalist and a vegetarian, amongst other things. Now, of course none of these things are bad - in fact I personally completely support each of these things. It's just the fact that this person refuses to even listen to why somebody doesn't compost or is a meat-eater, and immediately pronounces them a "moron" and plain "wrong" that I can't stand. This person, who thinks they are open-minded in their beliefs on principle of what their beliefs are, is actually the most closed-minded person I know.

I don't want the FBomb to be like this person. I want to know why people don't identify as feminists or think feminism is wrong, or even just have different ideas about what feminism is, and I want to know what they think while at the same time maintaining my own feminist beliefs. I think it's important as an individual to understand where other people come from not to mention that actually engaging in a conversation could possibly change their mind and help them to better understand feminism.

But, as I've said before, the FBomb isn't my blog - it's our blog. I didn't start the FBomb with a concrete mission or plan, I kind of just started it, thinking there'd maybe be 100 of us (in my wildest dreams) and we'd just write posts and comment and share with each other. Now, the FBomb has had over 300,000 hits, and I realize it's probably about time that we really think about what the FBomb is. I really am interested in what you see the FBomb accomplishing or what you'd like to see it accomplish so that we can try to achieve it. This is probably wayyyy over due, but I think it's a discussion worth having. So, please, write in the comments or even email me at juliez@thefbomb.org and let's define the FBomb together.

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Julie Zeilinger
Founding Editor of The WMC FBomb
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